
"The futility of the attempt was obvious; when you put so much effort to forget someone/ something, the effort itself becomes a memory. Then you have to forget the forgetting, and that too is memorable."
"It was a different life now, a different way of being a father and a son. It is not the things you do with them that count - the Lee Marvin double bills, the trips to football and the theme parks, all the fun family outings that are so much fun that you never have to actually talk to each other - it is the day-to-day confluence of everyday life that matters, the unadorned fact of living together, that is what makes your souls stick to each other." -- Harry Silver, Men from the Boys --